Thursday, May 27, 2010

Get over your self people, and stop being selfish.

Everybody seems to want to have their cake and eat it too. People with tattoo's want to be able to freely display their personality on their skins, but they also don't want to be discriminated. However, having prejudices is a unavoidable part of the human psychology. Not only is it natural to judge somebody's personality on how they look, but when a person displays their personality on their arms, they're are allowing people to form a prejudges opinion on a deeper level.

One the other hand, the new law in Bountiful that prevents people with tattoos or piercings from having a job with the city government is increasing the unemployment rate. One third of the people who apply for a government job in the city of Bountiful are turned down because of tattoos or piercings. Since there are so many people out of work these days, there is no shortage of people without tattoo's, who really need a job, to fill the position. So I can't say that is doing harm to the overall economy, but it is making people of a certain group far more susceptible to poverty. Let's not be coy, prejudices have driven entire races into poverty. Look at the African and Hispanic American communities, a majority of them struggle to make rent, living in broken down violent neighborhoods this is, and very small percent of these people will rise above poverty. The way someone displays them selves will always be big factor when it comes to getting a job, but that should remain a unspoken rule, not a written law. So someone might walk in the office and see a employee with tattoo's, that person can think what ever they want to about the employee, they may think that the employee is the scum of the earth if they please, but just because someone might think that doesn't justify making that person ineligible for the job. Get over it people, stop thinking that your personal opinion matters enough to force your will on other people just to make sure you don't have to see anything you don't agree with.

5 comments:

  1. I'd have to disagree with your statement regarding African Americans and Hispanic Americans. I don't think your facts are correct, to say that the majority of them live in broken down violent neighborhoods is a gross miscalculation. I do agree though that people do still judge us by how we present ourselves.

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  2. Well compared to how white people live. I don't have exact number's and facts, but it seem's pretty clear that most of the people you see in a nice upper or middle class safe neighborhood are white, and most of the people you see in the lower class neighborhoods have darker skin. It's just how it is. I'm not saying only white people are rich and all darker people are poor. It's just how it is. See for you self, take a walk in a nice neighborhood in the hills and count how many darker skinned people you see, then go count how many more darker skinned people you see in the poorer neighborhoods down in the valley. I'm not basin my opinion on facts, but rather on what I see every day. You'r right though maybe by using the word majority wasn't the right word to use.

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  3. "Everybody seems to want to have their cake and eat it too."

    I think this sums it up perfectly. You can't always have the best of both worlds. I'm sure that there are a lot of people out there with tattoos that have them for very personal reasons, but sometimes you can't wear those personal reasons on your sleeve and expect people to respect them in your professional life.

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  4. Do you think that employees with tattoos will be more discriminated by fellow employees, who get to know that person on a more personal level, or by a customer, who is possibly unable to distinguish a first impression from a true professional?

    My comment probably has comma splices and is a run on sentence. Any suggestions on how to write my sentence grammatically correct?

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  5. If you're asking me for advice on grammar, your asking the wrong person. I have a real hard time with grammar. It's not uncommon for me to wrestle with a sentence for twenty minutes, trying to get it to sound right.

    And as for the first question, I think that it is great to have an opinion after getting to know someone. If I get to know someone a little better, I might realize that I like or dislike them more or less, based on what I notice about them over time. I will put it in extremes to make the point more clear, true hate a person, you would have to have gotten to get to know them as well as you would get to know someone you truly love. In summary, to base likes and dislikes, loves and hates, on the true person, under the mask they where for society, your feelings towards that person are justified.

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